Inside Out-its good writing but a bit too harsh-i think

You need to change, you're not all that
seek to beleive you're better?
But in the end, it really doesnt matter
relationships don't work out this way
to degrade and deride all the way
people seek the best in you
while you bring out the worst there is
You really aren't the girl i thought i'd be

Memories so pleasant are made dull
seems to me its all to lull
heartless thing you are inside
so not worthy of being liked
people struggle day and night keep you up there
where its just right
but you seem to forget all there favours
look inside you, where your heart wavers

must you be so harsh and prudent?
must love be measured by yor hate-scale?
its really lonely once theyre gone
regret your folly while thyre still there
nothing will help once hearts are broken
nothing will return, once days turn over

a new sun will shine each day
darkening the shadows, the reminant decays
the harshness and tyranny may still be there
but no one to bother, neither to care

-wrote this on 8th of April 2003