On understanding the present

life in all its fold, unfolds
i know it now as never before
but who is it that taught me this
where is he who made me think?

why does she make me reconsider?
The bond we had, oh so dear
what is it that's changed?
"familiarity breeds contempt"
is it really playing out here?

sienfield's "no hugging, no learning": must get to the bottom of this